Japanese is often called one of the hardest languages in the world to learn. Why? First, it uses three writing systems—kanji, hiragana, and katakana—all at once. Then there’s the social complexity: the language changes depending on formality, hierarchy, and subtle context. A single sentence can have ten layers of meaning depending on tone and setting. It’s no surprise that even fluent speakers sometimes trip up.

But when it comes to nightlife in Japan—especially at snack bars, which are intimate, casual places run mostly by warm and talkative mama-sans—you don’t need to be fluent to connect. Just a few thoughtful Japanese phrases can turn you from “tourist” to “welcome guest.”

Here are three essential phrases you can use to enjoy your snack bar experience to the fullest.

「おじゃまします」(Ojama shimasu) – “Sorry to intrude”

This polite phrase literally means “I’m disturbing you,” and is commonly used when entering someone’s home or personal space. A snack bar, though technically a business, often feels like the mama’s living room. Saying ojama shimasu as you walk in shows respect for the space and its people.

Bonus tip: You’ll stand out (in a good way) if you say this upon entry. The regulars might even give you a nod of approval.

「いただきます」(Itadakimasu) – “Let’s eat” with gratitude

More than a pre-meal greeting, itadakimasu is a cultural expression of thankfulness—to the ingredients, the cook, and everyone who made the food possible. In a snack bar, where the mama often serves up homemade snacks with care, saying itadakimasu before you eat shows sincerity and appreciation.

Bonus tip: Say it softly with a slight nod before your first bite. It helps break the ice and makes your meal more meaningful.

「ごちそうさまでした」(Gochisousama deshita) – “Thank you for the meal”

When you’re about to leave, say gochisousama deshita. It’s the polite way to express thanks after eating or drinking, and it wraps up your visit with grace and gratitude. It acknowledges not just the food and drinks, but also the conversation and hospitality you’ve enjoyed.

Bonus tip: A gentle smile and small bow make this phrase even more powerful. It’s a classy way to say goodbye—and maybe secure a warmer welcome next time.

It’s Not About Perfect Japanese

The Japanese language may be complex, but the heart of a good night at a snack bar is simple: connection. You don’t need to speak fluently; you just need to show effort, curiosity, and respect. These three phrases are more than words—they’re bridges to new experiences, warm conversations, and lasting memories.

So next time you pass a glowing doorway in a back alley, hear laughter inside, and see a mama waiting behind the counter—step in and say:

「おじゃまします」Your seat is waiting!